Looking at this picture makes me want to stab myself. Because despite these hangers being so pretty, and the bralettes being so pretty, they get tangled up like a huge bitch and it really makes me want to claw my face off untangling them. 😠
It is also super funny, because as I got more and more annoyed trying to untangle and unpack from yesterday's flea, I also got more and more annoyed at Husband Ng. 😅
I'm not sure if it's because I was untangling everything on my own (he was doing other stuff) my brain tried to find ways to push the blame to Daniel.
Like, walao why he must hang the bralettes like that. He hooks the straps over the hangers first before kiapping, which makes it more secure, but a huge bitch to remove.
I swear, if I continued to untangle the hangers, I'd have exploded into a huge fit and ended up breaking the straps of some bralettes, so I put them all back into their huge messy pile and walked away ✌️Problem for another day.
I think it's very very important to know your breaking point and be able to walk away from triggers and to be able to hold your tongue.
As couples, it's impossible to love everything about each other. And it applies to friends and colleagues as well.
The value in holding your tongue
Sometimes, people have quirks that will piss you off and you'll want to retort or get it off your chest. But holding your tongue can be a virtue also.
I mean. If I spitefully told Daniel that it's his fault for getting the hangers all tangled up etc, what do I get out of it?
A moment of shiokness of being "right" and getting to nag at him? A moment of satisfaction from being able to get it off my chest?
Confirm, being able to be right and scold someone can be quite shiok sometimes but the aftermath is not worth dealing with la.
Which is why (most of the time) I choose to hold my tongue 🙈 Sometimes it can be seen as very cowardly or like I don't dare to speak up for myself.
But! It prevents a catastrophy and an argument which I feel is worth it.
In that moment tho, when I hold my tongue, I literally feel like I'm so angry I'm going to explode.
Like there's a ball of words in my chest that I have to swallow. In that moment it really feels like it's such a huge thing.
But once the moment passes and you calm down LOL you'll be like. Wtf lucky I didn't say anything cos it's such a small matter. 😂😂
I guess what I'm trying to say is that when you're frustrated or angry, everything seems like a huge thing. And you can't seem to get over it.
But when you look back, it really isn't.
What's in my cart
I've decided to do some shopping online, cos I'm running out of clothes to wear and I keep repeating and it's getting out of hand 😂 #taobao
I've been stealing Daniel's shirts so often that he doesn't even bother putting them back into his rightful place in the wardrobe anymore 😂
I'm also very into buying midi length dresses and skirts instead of short skirts nowadays. Not sure if it's cos old or cos wanna hide fat legs 🙈 but yes! Been gravitating towards longer pieces!
This also means more flowy pants 💯 When I was still at my previous job, I would wear the same v-neck spaghetti strap and loose flowy pants everyday but in different designs and patterns. And my boss would be like…
Chow why you wear the same pyjamas everyday 😂😂😂😂
Dude obviously didn't get fashion. Or is it cos I no fashion?? 🙈
DK who asked me to bring some of my old clothes to the flea to sell yesterday. But I was like. If I sell my old clothes, I will have no clothes to wear 😂
Which explains this shopping spree. Ok let's just get down to business.
This is like watching me shop live. Cos I'm shopping while updating 😂 you can let me know if I should buy anything or omit anything also 😂
Porcelain cold shoulder dress
I was attracted to the blue and white prints on this! Idk if it's porcelain prints but 😂 nvm la. But! I've had terrible experience buying cold shoulder dresses online. Somehow they always look FRIGGIN weird on me.
Especially these kind with the holes at the shoulder 😂 plus this dress is not the ideal length.
But pretty leh!
Frilly blue striped wrap dress
Ok next up. WHY AM I ATTRACTED TO ALL THE SHORT DRESSES 😂
but nvm the heart wants what the heart wants. And this heart wants a wrap dress. But the frilly frilly……. it'll be nice on a petite person but idk if it will make me look too frilly. I like the v neck tho! Can wear the OBClassic in dusty blue to show off the front straps #obsessed #ourbraletteclub
Nude floral romper
BUY. THIS ONE. JUST BUY 😂
Length is perfect and it has like ultra high waistline. Remember my favourite striped green romper that is so ugly and make my legs start from my tits? I LOVE IT.
I love comfy anything and this looks super comfy. Except unlike my green romper. It's also very pretty looking 😂
The sides are slightly weird tho. I scared my Baba come out. But nvm wear a midi bralette 😂 #obsessed
Embroidered offshoulder babydoll top
I want this to work so badly. But the logical part of myself knows that it won't work 😂
I think the line will end up at my half boob and I'll look hilarious. It's super cute tho!
Embroidered wrap top
I think quite a few girls on Dayre already got this! Very late to the game cos I haven't been shopping in a while.
But I like it! Hehe.
Floral Flare Pants in White
I really really love this pair of pants! But too bad the sizing doesn't fit me 😭😭😭
So putting this here so if anyone likes it they can get it!
Hehe another short thing. But shorts I'm ok! Especially if they have elastic bands!
I think I'm old and fatty now. So I feel most comfy in bottoms with elastic tops (HAHAHAHA husband Ng also 😂😂😂)
So this one gets a big yes from me!
Gold Cherry Romper
Aiyo…those sleeves and that oxblood colour 😍😍😍
The L size doesn't fit my PTP but I wanna risk it and get it. WHY U DO DIS TO MI 😭
I'm a sucker for rompers.
Half blue half pink romper (omg my names suck)
Ok I'm on a romper rrrrooooollll here.
So much for not wanting to wear short stuff and here I am religiously going for all the short things 😂😂
I just said I wouldn't buy short skirts but here I am drooling over them 😭😭😭
But I'm not buying. Just drooling ok!! #windowshopping
Ok buying new stretchy pyjama pants!! 😍
Omg dead. Tropical prints are my weakness. 😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱
I don't rly like the tying on the sides but the prints and the apron looking cutting are up my alley 😍
Okok I think I better stop. HAHAHA. This is why I can only shop once in a blue moon. If not my cart will explode. 😂
I think instead of an AMA I can do a TYA where I Taobao You Anything 😂
If you're looking for something and need help Tb-ing let me know and maybe I can post them up when I have the time. You know like how YouTubers ask their…viewers (?) to leave a comment on what they would like to see next 😂
Except I don't video and I'm not famous 😂
I'll do a review once the stuff come so you will know which are true to pics and which are #taobaofails 😂 #chowbao