Husband Ng and I had our customary wedding ceremony 2 Saturdays ago (@braintango:251117)
and as much as I thought I've already perfected my entire wedding experience after having my dream ROM last year (@braintango:051116),
This was close to perfect too. 😭✨
I am extremely extremely lucky to have had the luxury of celebrating my marriage to the same man twice.
And both times I had the time of my life. ❤️
(Before I start this extremely lengthy post, which I foresee myself taking 100 days to complete, I would like to thank my photographer and dear friend Matt (@matthewng.co on IG), for helping me to fall in love with my own wedding all over again.
Matt, if you're reading this, I'm honoured to have had you at our wedding.
Some people look at photos to be reminded of wonderful memories, but your photos tell a brilliant story by themselves.
You are a genius✨)
I had initially wanted to not have gatecrash cos…I didn't want to trouble my bridesmaids but they were the sweetest little things ever and helped carry this out PERFECTLY ✨
A lot of #dayrebrides have decided to do away with this cos they think it's abit mean to torture their future husband, but all in the name of fun and games la! Just don't go overboard and everything will be fine 🙃
I had a good laugh watching the live stream upstairs 😂😂
If you think my husband and his band of brothers look extremely dapper, hahahahah. Thank you ah! ✨
Stylist is me 🙃✨
I do think that there's a huge difference when men clean up and put on some nice clothes!
Daniel's suit, shoes, bowtie and shirt,
Groomsmen suspenders, tie and tiepin are all from Taobao!
I'll consolidate links and update again!
Guess who has the cutest little car door opener? 🙃🙃
It's us!!!! 😂 I love my baby nephew too much.
Too. Damn. Much 😂
The boys were supposed to reach at 8.08am and honk but they arrived quietly and the girls were like???? How come never announce ah! Hahaha.
Ask this imp to open the door, but he slipped into the car with his favourite playmate, aka his Guzhang haha.
So so so cute tho! I was watching upstairs and almost chionged down to carry him and tickle his fatty belly.
And look guys! Matching bowties!!!! 🙃
And while the boys arrived, I was getting veiled by my parents haha. They were like. Faster faster so I can go down and see 🙃
Hello, who is your daughter. 😂 Why you want to leave me so soon.
On a side note, I FREAKING LOVE MY GOWN. I am rolling my eyes at myself for hating on it when I first received it 😒😒😓
Ok done. My parents left and my photog also left hahaha.
And now I am alone emoing. Idk how Matt got to capture this expression cos the instructions were to be ~pensive~ but I don't remember being pensive. Hence, Matt is a genius.
Hehe also, this is my favourite look of all. The white gown and the veil. The Kua is a close second 🙃
So poor thing 😓 but basically there are 4 drinks and 4 activities for the gate crash 🙃
1. Jumprope on painful massage mat (LOL) & Drink Lemon Juice + Vinegar 🍋🍋🍋
2. Pass the super rings using Pocky & Drink Bittergourd juice 🙃 🌱🌿🌱
3. Shake Post it's off their body & Eat super spicy x2 fire ramen with chilli padi + mala beans
4. Bust through cling wrap with face & Eat super sweet pudding & jellybeans 🍬🍬🍬
Boshi the negotiator 🙃🙃
Taking off their shoes in prep for torture LOL 🙃
Actually very poor thing la. It's so warm and they were all wearing long sleeved and pants 😓 I felt a bit bad haha but mostly poor Fatty Ng who was wearing a lot.
I bet he almost melted 😂
Apparently the red mat is from running man haha. And even though it looked very mild…it actually hurt 😂😂😂
Now that the wedding is over, my mum is keeping it to massage her feat 😓🙃
Haha. So poor thing 😂
Passing the cheese rings….lol this one purely for photo taking purposes.
It was damn comical cos they kept salivating with the pocky in the mouth. Too delicious liao 😂
And Justin kept eating the pocky 😂
And flinging the post its off!
Haha btw the boy's tie pins match the girl's little hanging thing on their skirts! It's a little Chinese 🍍 knot 🙃
So poor thing. Lips on fire after the noodle challenge HAHHAH.
OMG THE LIPS ALL RED RED 👍👄💋
The last game hahaha hilarious sia. Lucky we have industrial cling wrap 👍😂
Makes for a great photo opportunity! 🙃
They made it guys!!! Haha I think Fatty Ng must be thinking wah being a guy is damn tough. 🙃
My beautiful deep red rustic bouquet from @gliss.co on IG! 👍
Husband Ng, is that love I see in your eyes?? 😍😍
Hehe. Sorry it wasn't as romantic as they describe it to be in the movies or novels.
There were no sparks, and there were no tears. Just a lot a lot of laughter. 🙃
When he walked in it was so awkward so I started a monologue.
👰: Are those flowers for me? Why thank you!
I also had to request to be kissed 🙃
Which I regretted cos his lips were spicy from the noodles 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Copying my mum and dad's photo pose hahaha 😂😂👰🤵
An official welcome into the family husband Ng! HAHAHHAA. If we didn't have the banquet you will forever just be my boyfriend 😂
Also, check out my mum and dad matching their outfits. Wts. 😂
Heh trying to recreate photos from last year's solemnization.
Btw if anyone is interested in my car decor, Fatty Ng and his cousin are starting a small sideline doing rustic decor (not the obiang kind with mesh and flowers 😂😂) for weddings so drop me an email if you're interested! #uhsponsoredbymyhusband
Also super love the gown and the tulle here 😍😂
Hehe close ups of my gown and my gold bangle Hahahaha.
My jiemeis were like…are you sure you want to wear all the gold with your white gown….😲
And I was like HUH WHAT U MEAN OF COURSE IM WEARING 😂
hahahahaha hilarious. But I did give in and didn't wear the gold necklaces. Thinking back, should have worn it 😢
You can clearly see how hairy my arms are in this photo 😂 but no I didn't shave it for the wedding.
Firstly cos my mum don't allow and secondly cos…………………
I am not bothered by it.
Maybe like 8% but not enough to make me wanna wax or shave it 🙃
With the coolest people ever! 🙃
I remember last time during my solemnization I mentioned that it's best to have even number of xiongdi to and jiemeis cos it looks nicer when you take pictures.
But this time Daniel had 5 xiongdis and I only have 4 jiemeis but….WHO CARES.
Can't tell right? 🙃 My priorities have obviously shifted 😂
One more of my merry crew 😍
Oh btw, last year's colour scheme was grey-blue and red-navy
But this year I decided to match the xiongdi and jiemeis and I love the neat navy blue effect! Hahaha. I didn't think it would get better than last year but….somehow….it did.
Freaking love the skirts from Taobao. So floofy and one size fits all. Wts I'm damn good at eyeballing these shit cos I'm a PPG hahahahaha. I know when free sized stuff fits me 🙃
And then my dad walked me out and into the car with an umbrella SO CUTE. Hahaha.
I think this is akin to him walking me down the aisle cos we didn't have an aisle 🙃
But hehe I'm happy to have walked with this goofy man who always has a soft spot for his youngest daughter 💕
Btw look at my floofy ass skirt 🙃
Throwing the fan out of the car for my mum to pick up 🙃
Matt was like….chow…you really cannot do things glamly 😐
And I was like…… HAHAHHAA YA WTS. My face tho.
I must have been very happy to be able to litter 🙃
Daniel's Place – Tea Ceremony
And we changed into our kua! Haha.
I was actually very happy to change cos uh the long tulle dress is very difficult to walk in 😐
Hehe I also quite liked how our Kua looked in pictures. Super matchy matchy 🙃🙃🙃
My bridesmaids helped to remove my white floral headband (from Taobao) and replaced it with this red one! Hehe saved the money for one hairdo and saved time too!
Hehe the link to my bridesmaid's skirts is here!
I am slightly (only slightly, but still slightly) regretting starting this post cos now it feels like I will never be able to finish 😐
Haha anyway, after the tea ceremony we proceed back to our place to eat Tang Yuan!!!!!
Hehe lovingly made by Daniel's grandma! 💕
I feel like I look like I'm trying to…stuff my husband 😂
Btw I still really love our Kuas and how they turned up in photos!!!! 🙃
After which, we went back to my house for tea ceremony 😅 and then that was the end of the morning.
WTS THIS POST TOOK ME FOREVER TO WRITE.
And hahaha I feel the same way I felt in this picture. I AM AT THE END OF THE TRADITIONAL CEREMONIES YASSSSSS
Also, cos got Old Chang Kee buffet to eat…..shiok. 💕
Sharing some photos taken by Shiqi hahaha but the buffet table was super cute la!
It was retro themed and there was DIY laksa (so shiok) and only about $500+ for 30 pax. Not too bad! Inclusive of delivery fee too!
Haha. NOT SPONSORED.
I just really liked the set up and the effort they went to to make it look nice 🙃
I only noticed this now…..but there was also a….customized menu with our names????????
WHAT THE SHIT EFFORT MAX.
Or is it cos I never order buffet before?
But BTBs please remember you can choose OCK for your morning buffet for relatives hehe
I am very impressed! Look for Evelyn and tell her Chow/Liying recommended you. 😎
Btw still got rustic bird cage decoration and peonies to match the oriental theme. 💯💯💯
The DIY laksa table 💯💯
And my favourite part which is the drinks gong!!!!!! So old school wts!!!!
Haha I felt so happy scooping drinks for myself.
Can't believe I'm ending my wedding post with raving about the buffet table.
BUT I DID. AND NO REGRETS. I LOVE U OCK. I am ordering their buffet for my Xmas party too. #noregrets
Ok bye don't want to write already. I am so bored by my own wedding. I think you all are too.
P.S: I am damn happy I can set the date on my phone back to normal again. 😐
Sorry, I half assedly documented my wedding. But I will find the motivation to share about the evening dinner banquet soon….promise. 😅